So, who is really at fault here? Does it even matter at this point? Not unless we can talk about solutions. We can complain and blame each other until the cows come home but if all we are doing is talking then there will be no change. I continue to see everyday the problem our children are having without the presence of their father being in their lives. Children are starting to get desperate. Anything goes these days and we as parents are sitting on our hands. They are crying out to get attention anyway they can because most of them, including me, never had their dad give them any encouraging words, ever.
So parents, do you have any idea of what you are doing to your children when you bring them into this world with your dysfunction? Do you know that when you have children and then disappear from their lives that you are derelict of you duties as a parent? Children these days are put at a more disadvantage then ever before in history. With the education and technology advancement over the pass several hundred years, we as parents should be doing much better then we are.
So, I ask again, who is really at fault? Well, it all of us. Women you are responsible for every single thing you allow into your body to include, education, alcohol, drugs and semen! Men, it is your duty to love and protect every single child you knowingly make from conception to they end your life. If we adhere by these two statement this world would be a better world.
One last thing, I believe one of the worst aspect of our society is they blended family. Men, in your 30’s, 40’s and even 50’s please stop going to these colleges and sleeping with and impregnating these young childless girl then leaving them with the burden. Women, with 3, 4, and even 5 children please stop hooking up with guys who do not have any kids and putting that burden on him. We need strong fathers, with backbones, who were taught how to lead and protect their wife and kids from his biological father. This is important because both biological parents can raised young responsible adults with vibrant energy that will attract other vibrant energy. We have continue to drop the ball by setting our children up for failure. Our children deserve better.